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Alternative Dispute Resolution Anna Denton-Jones Communication Conflict COVID-19 Disciplinary Employment Law Grievance Investigations Return to Work Stress Victimisation

Why we might be seeing more conflict and mistakes

You may have noticed some of the following since the pandemic:

• People getting more upset than “normal” over something relatively trivial.
• People having a very emotional reaction to something they are asked to do, for example, returning to the office.
• An increase in conflict in situations where previously this would have been less likely to happen and employees being less resilient.

There is a brain science explanation for all of this. We have at brain chemistry level, been living within an environment of constant and invisible threat for 18 months. During a situation of stress such as this, the limbic system goes into overdrive and more complex parts of our brain such as the prefrontal cortex are used less.

This all makes sense in an emergency: we need our brains to focus to enable us to deal with the threat. For example, I had somebody drive into the back to me recently at speed while I was stationary in the car. The limbic brain function enables you to calmly deal with the situation but in that state it becomes much harder for us to think rationally, deal with complicated decisions and we become error prone.

This might also explain why, if you are feeling that you are just trying to do something relatively straight forward that you have always done but for some reason it feels more challenging than previously. We overloaded the system. I always remember a junior doctor talking about how they coped with their very long shift working and all that their job brought with it but would burst into tears when they found that the toothpaste had run out. It’s a perfect illustration of the pressure on our system, suppressing the prefrontal cortex and yet reacting emotionally, losing our tempers more and being unable to talk ourselves down in the way we would normally.

Normally the prefrontal cortex is able to talk to the limbic system essentially telling it to calm down and behave more rationally but if we are stressed, tired or sick then that becomes more difficult. We know how exhausted everyone is saying they are, particularly those who have worked in the front line or who have had to step up in other ways to see their organisation through the last 18 months, we can see why normality is being impaired.

This is why everybody feels a bit on edge but can’t really articulate why – it is normal when you’ve survived some kind of disaster.

The brain is immensely adaptable and will figure its way through this phase. It can even be a good thing where people will grow as a result of the experience, with the majority returning to functioning as they did before and a small proportion effectively experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder. Researchers are even beginning to talk about the common outcome being long term resilience but for the meantime, what can we do?

We have to accept that a cohort of the workforce are feeling immense fatigue and have short levels of concentration or simply struggling to concentrate at all. We have to recognise when this is happening that it’s not necessarily a permanent state of affairs and that we need to provide support rather than go straight to performance managing out. It may even help to talk about this to get people to understand what is going on so that they accept their emotional state, rather than trying to fight against it. This reduces them being stressed about being stressed in the first place. It stops people dwelling and feeling increasingly negative. Dealing with what’s going on in a non-judgemental way can drag that prefrontal cortex back into the picture and give it a chance to quieten down the limbic system. If people are in a state of anxiety it can be quite easy to end up in a negative spiral where that becomes the dominant emotion.

When we are in a particular mental state we tend to dwell on the particular emotion that we are feeling and remember all of the other times that we have felt this way rather than all the other times when we haven’t felt this way. It may help people to understand that this is what happens and that dwelling on something more positive can help the brain chemistry.

Anna Denton-Jones
Refreshing Law

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Anna Denton-Jones Dispute Management Employment Law Employment Rights Act 1996 Employment Tribunal Grievance Investigations Victimisation

Dangers of a victimisation claim

A recent case illustrates the risk employers face every time they receive a grievance in relation to a victimisation complaint.

If the grievance has any kind of discrimination angle to it, bullying harassment or an argument about less favourable treatment because of a protected characteristic or an allegation that the employer has failed to make reasonable adjustments to accommodate a health issue, the employer also runs the risk of a victimisation complaint.

The raising of the grievance, if it references the protected characteristic and allegations of some form of discrimination, becomes a “protected act”. If, as a result of that protected act, the employee then suffers some other detriment, this will give them grounds to claim victimisation.

This can be as simple as suffering the consequences of colleagues knowing that a grievance has been raised and behaving differently towards the person who has raised the grievance as a result. For example, a manager who has been accused may be very angry about the accusation that has been made or other colleagues who are interviewed as witnesses in the grievance process might change their behaviour towards the individual, “sending them to Coventry” or even telling them that they agree with what the employee has done. One of the first mediations that I was ever involved with, involved this scenario where a colleague clearly felt a manager didn’t deserve to be criticised by the other employee who had raised a grievance.

A recent case that illustrated this, was a case against Online Travel Training Group Ltd by Mr Weinreb. He was a Business Development Manager and had some kind of altercation with a Finance Manager after asking for her help. It sounds as though the Finance Manager didn’t like the employee and felt he should have known how to do the things he was asking for help with. The Tribunal felt that she goaded him and created conflict. Another colleague implied Mr Weinreb had been Jewish during a discussion about team work, and he also alleged that a conversation about the gay dating app ‘Grinder’ implied his colleagues thought he was a closet homosexual.

The case ended up in cross-grievances – the Finance Manager raised a grievance against Mr Weinreb because he recorded a conversation held about his commission. Mr Weinreb raised a grievance alleging discrimination and complaining about how an employment review meeting had been held.

Faced with the cross-grievance, the Managing Director missed the opportunity to go to a mediator and really get to the bottom of what was going on between the two individuals. Instead the pair were told that they should only communicate with each other by email (Tip: never go down that route).

Matters were investigated but played down – the Finance Manager was reminded of her obligation to show respect to her colleagues. Mr Weinreb attended a Grievance Outcome Meeting with the Managing Director who sounds like she lost her temper. At one point, she banged on the desk and told Mr Weinreb that she was very upset and offended by his allegations of discrimination about his colleagues (Tip: never do this!).

Mr Weinreb clearly didn’t feel listened to and this is a very important part of any grievance process and so appealed the grievance outcome.

The company subsequently dismissed Mr Weinreb for his “unacceptable conduct”. The Managing Director felt that his allegations had been spurious.

The banging on the table at the grievance outcome and failure to give Mr Weinreb any details about why his employment was being terminated were the acts of victimisation in this particular case. It was found that the Managing Director would not have behaved in the way that she had, had the employee not complained of discrimination in the first place.

Since employers are vulnerable to the emotional responses of those accused in grievances and those around them, it is very important that employers must always make it clear to those involved that any mistreatment of the employee who has raised a grievance will, in itself, be a disciplinary issue and that they are alert to their behaviour so that they can take action when necessary.

Refreshing Law
3 June 2021